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Kesher Wife Workshop Approbations “Although I have not attended the Kesherwife Workshop, reliable people who have attended it report that the seminar is Torah-based and will help many marriages. Shalom bayis is the #1 challenge and priority for our community. May Hashem grant Mrs. Rigler success in protecting Klal Yisroel’s mikdash-me’at.” “Sara Rigler’s Kesher Wife Workshop was not only a fun, intelligent experience, but it also provided me with doable, user-friendly Shalom Bayis tools that have brought more joy to my marriage.” “What a great workshop! … I think every woman, and husband, will gain so much from it.” “The presentation was outstanding. The creativity, props, practical steps to accomplish the goals, and the incredible amount of information given over—all contributed to an amazing experience. Thank you, thank you, thank you.” “The workshop made a real impact here in Teaneck. How my husband is benefitting! The other day he left the house saying, ‘I love my life, I love you.’" “I have read many shalom bayis books and heard many shiurim, but Sara Rigler’s unique presentation was succinct yet comprehensive, simple yet powerful, and truly transformational. I wish I had heard this wisdom 30 years ago.” “I found your workshop to be a thorough synthesis of material I have been learning for years and the single best presentation on Shalom Bayit I have attended. After one week of working on being a “Kesher Wife,” my wonderful husband planned the trip to the Golan we have been talking about taking for 2 years. When I stepped away from my “being in control” role, he assumed responsibility for every detail of the trip. It was a real vacation for me!” “I was actually using the D-word [divorce], thinking of the preliminary steps to end my marriage, before I took the Kesher Wife Workshop. Now I have been practicing the tools I learned for three months, and my marriage is better than it has ever been—no more fights, no more derision on my part. It was truly life-changing.” “I gained so much from the seminar. Wow, did it speak to me! I am catching myself looking or acting like those ladies [criticizing, correcting, and controlling] and reframing myself. Those of us who were there felt deeply challenged to reevaluate our styles of communication.” “The workshop provided me with concrete tools to battle my inclination to criticize, correct, and control. It helped me recognize what I was doing wrong and how to commit myself to avoiding those pitfalls and improve my relationship with my husband.” ”I just took the Kesher Wife workshop, and I cannot contain my excitement. Although I am married over twenty years and work on myself I see that I still have a long way to go. Looking forward to the challenge and cannot wait for the Club to start.” Mrs. Rigler gives visualizations and words to guide us from the initial coarse interactions we might be using towards more productive and respectful and G-d conscious interactions, interactions that have been helping me to improve my bais neeman. The charts are a great way to keep focused on the task and, when I choose connection rather than disconnection, I feel I have a place to share my victories and that I have a support group. And, I have come to understand my husband’s coarse interactions better as well, so that it has become easier overall. Thank you for this wonderful program! Thank you so so so much for the terrific, outstanding, earth-shattering, mind-boggling, powerful, presentation you gave our group last night. I was very looking forward to hearing your wise words. Little did I know that this would be a multi-sensory experience where I would bathe my body and soul in holy waters. |
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